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Why do guys look up TikTok girls instead of porn? My boyfriend of two years, looks up big boobs on TikTok. He has never once cheated on me, not on social media or IRL. He claims it’s to “get off real quick if I’m not home.”

08.06.2025 11:04

Why do guys look up TikTok girls instead of porn? My boyfriend of two years, looks up big boobs on TikTok. He has never once cheated on me, not on social media or IRL. He claims it’s to “get off real quick if I’m not home.”

It sounds like a tricky situation. It's quite common for folks to browse through social media platforms like TikTok in search of porn live streams, even when they're in a committed relationship. The appeal of TikTok is that it feels less intense than traditional adult videos - it's more accessible, and the content is usually a bit more ""real world"" or relatable, which can be appealing in its own way.

However, I totally get why this might feel uncomfortable for you. It's really important in relationships to have open lines of communication about what makes each other comfortable or not. Sharing how you feel about his habits and discussing boundaries regarding the consumption of such content will help clear the air and strengthen your trust.

Your boyfriend says he uses it to ""get off real quick"" might just be his way of finding something quick and straightforward without delving into deeper adult content. For many, TikTok's bite-sized, visually stimulating content fits that quick-fix bill.

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